Christmas Is Best Explored In Love
Summer days of chatting to attractive men in pub gardens and lazily swiping on sun loungers are long gone..
Rain-soaked blow dries and arctic-haired legs have taken their place. So you’d be right in believing that finding love around the holidays is a difficult task.
But it can be done, and it may lead to long-lasting, emotional bonds based on a shared future rather than how many men dressed as elves you can kiss in one night.
Last year at this time, I was in the prime of my dating life. I refused to give in after a summer of misadventure with men who took me on dates to the pub just so they could watch the Arsenal match and that one who showed up dressed as the Blues Brothers. I gave myself permission to appreciate the possibilities of Christmas, not to be outdone by winter weddings and skiing mini-breaks.
You can easily meet your match by being proactive and refusing to dismiss this time of year as a holiday for couples.
Steps to Meeting Match in Christmas
1. Go where the crowds are
Getting friendly in the locations you frequent will certainly help you land a date. Going to locations or events that interest you, though, makes for an adorable and convincing meet-cute.
You may have already observed that the holiday season is jam-packed with Christmas shows, bazaars, art fairs, recitals, and other artistic endeavors.
Visit their events and even buy their items to show your support for these local performers and craftspeople. Who knows, maybe you’ll be seated next to a potential date.
2. Refresh your knowledge of online dating
As you wind up the year and plan for the new, Christmas is also a busy time. It’s understandable if you don’t have as much time to physically hunt for a date, despite the fact that it’s unfortunate.
So, if you are unable to visit them, allow them to visit you. With the help of online dating services and apps, you can nurture and make arrangements with potential matches from the comfort of your own home.
Furthermore, online dating sites have a large user base: it’s quite improbable that you won’t find someone to date among the hundreds or millions of people that use the site.
3. Turn into a social butterfly
The Yuletide season makes you feel warm and pleasant in general. In fact, the increase in dopamine and adrenaline around the holidays can help you feel more confident and gregarious.
It’s no surprise that you create new pals even when you aren’t as active.
Once we uttered an euphoric “Hi, happy holidays!” to someone we loosely knew from work or school, down to the person we usually meet on our coffee run, they can become our Christmas date.
Is it possible for me to be happily single
You somehow ended up without a long-term relationship or even a potential holiday date. You start to wonder if you can have a pleasant little Christmas by yourself.
What is the solution? You certainly can.
Many people claim that staying alone during the holidays is preferable to forcing a relationship to keep you company. The latter is based on a momentary aim, and once the romance of Christmas has worn off, it’s simple for the spark to fade.
Staying single, on the other hand, encourages you to spend more time with the people who are most important to you throughout the year—your family, friends, and yourself.