GUIDE TO DATING AN OLDER WOMAN

Cougars nowadays are anything but passive. Many men tend to crave a taste of an older woman’s experience, thanks to their rise in popularity thanks to TV series and films… However, not every cougar is looking for a sexual partner. Many of them are looking for a robust connection because of their age, so if you’re looking for one, make sure you know what she’s looking for. They’ll have little patience for youthful foolishness, so follow these rules and she’ll be yours in no time, gentlemen.

Take Things Slow and Easy.

Don’t pursue after an older woman only to check something off your sexual bucket list. People should not be fetishized for one small component of their persona, nor should they be used as “bragging rights.” You should pursue women with whom you have a deep connection and are really interested.

The sex will be hotter beyond anything you’ve ever experienced before. She is knowledgeable and strong, but you must get to know her outside of a physical connection. Take her out to dinner, ask her what she enjoys and where she wants to go, and then make it happen. She will be grateful for your concern.

But, in general, one of the most important characteristics that women develop as they grow older is self-assurance. They have more self-esteem and are less concerned about their appearance. Ironically, women in their 20s and 30s are more self-conscious of their bodies. In my sex therapy practice, I’ve met with beautiful young ladies who were afraid of their stomach, thighs, or butt seeming “strange” if they tried particular sex positions. Women in their forties and fifties still have insecurities, but they don’t obsess about them or share them as much as younger women do.

Older women also have more experience in bed, making them a lot of fun. Many women indicate that they are at their sexual peak in their late 30s and early 40s. Bottom line: You might be in for some of the finest sex you’ve ever had.

Be Assertive.

Nothing is more enticing than a man who understands exactly what he wants, and this demonstrates your maturity for your age. Don’t be afraid to take risks.

Avoid Labelling.

Do not refer to her as a “cougar.” It implies that she is older, yet it is still offensive to some women.

Ignore the Age Difference.

Stop expressing the obvious because she knows she’s older. If you keep saying how happy you are to be in the relationship and how great it works despite the fact that you’ve been together for so long, she’ll get bored and it’ll be impolite. Don’t treat her like your mother if she doesn’t treat you like her son.

Your girlfriend may be self-conscious about the fact that she is older than you at first, especially if there is a significant age difference. In other words, all of the cougar nonsense she’s seen online, on TV, and everywhere is causing her brain to light up. This is why it’s crucial to make sure you’re not just hanging out with her for the sake of it. If you’re serious about her, go out of your way to let her know that her age doesn’t matter to you. Tell her about the qualities you admire the most about her and the reasons you’re drawn to her.